You’ve heard it all before. To get a boyfriend you just need to be yourself, and it’s true, but sometimes yourself needs a little guidance to help you get there, and that’s what this article is all about.

Confidence is key in getting a boyfriend. Even the shyest girl can be quietly confident in her own way, it’s all about your attitude. Confidence is one of those times in life where you just have to “fake it til you make it”. This means if you pretend like your confident, and act the way your think someone with confidence acts, eventually you’ll actually start to feel confident. This needs to be a constant mind set if you’re ever going to get the guy of your dreams.

Being social is the next most important step. Having lots of friends (male and female) gets you that much closer to having a boyfriend. Simply being friendly to everyone you meet is a great place to start. If you’re outgoing, start conversations with people who seem friendly back. If you’re shy, simply flashing a smile and letting them approach you is a good method too. Smile, laugh, talk, have fun with your new friends. You want to get a reputation as a friendly, approachable girl so guys feel more drawn to you.

Work with what you have. Looks aren’t everything, but they are a part of life and a part of love so it never hurts to be aware of your appearance. Know that you are beautiful and show it off however you can. Take care of your hygiene (that means showering, brushing your teeth, deodorant, etc.) and the rest will come more naturally.

Once guys start to notice the new you, you need to be ready to deal with them. Don’t play games, try to be as honest as possible without looking desperate or pushy. Let them come to you and make sure you know how they feel before you completely give up your emotions.

Most important (even though you’ve heard it before), be yourself. There is actually very important logic behind this. If you aren’t being yourself and someone likes you, once you start dating you’re either going to have to keep acting like someone else and lying to the person you’re with, or else show them the real you and lose them. If you’ve been yourself all along, you can just keep being yourself and be happy with the person who chose you for you.

Everycollegegirl.com did a great post on How to get guys to notice you

Filed under: Relationships by admin Date 28 January, 2008